BIKIN HAIFUWAR ANNABI

Masu bikin Mauludi sun kasu kashi kashi.

1-masu yi da manufa mai kyau, su sukan yi shi kamar yadda Aka kirkire shi a Daular fadimiyya, wadannan ba su cika aikata Shirka da Fasadi a bikin na su ba, ba sa wuce cin abinci da karanta tarihin haifuwar Annabi saw da wakokin yabon sa,  duk da wasu wakokin akwai wuce iyaka da bashi matsayin Mahalicci da kuma kissosi marasa inganci. 

2-Wadan da suka maida bikin hanyar samun kudi da nuna karfin su da yawan mabiyan su,kamar wasu shehunan Dariqu  da makusantan su, da suke rubutu wa Gomnatoti su basu kudi da kuma gudummawar mabiya garuruwa da kauyuka. 

3- wadan da suke yi dan bada haushi wa wadan da suke ganin a bin a matsayin bid'a da musulunci ba ya so. 

4- wadan da suke anfani da shi wajen kwaso mabiya daga wata tafiya zuwa ta su kamar Shi'a. 

5-yan tamore tunda akwai gangwajewa da chashewa  sheke aya samari da yan mata, 

To cikin wadannan wa kake ga zai kubuta ?

Allah ka tabbatar da mu akan tafarki madaidaici, ka raya mu ka kashe mu akan Koyarwa da Soyayya da biyayya wa Annabi Muhammad saw.

WHY WE SHOULD BE FOCUSED IN LIFE!!

A car moves to only one point at a time. A person finds himself in one place only at a time. The truth is nobody can succeed in everything, but everybody has that one thing can catapults him to the top which could eventually open doors for several other things.

People ask: how can I get to the top? The answer is simply that each step, you take is to the top. If you know what you want in life, then refuse to be distracted. Never loose sight of your destination.

Divided interest saps energy; create confusion and leads to chaos. A double minded man is unstable in all his ways. I can't imagine a person becoming a success who doesn't give his life to everything he is got.

A good head that is pointed in the wrong direction is useless. It is impossible to be a good soldier doing what civilians do, neither can you be a successful footballer purchasing basket ball or a celebrate doctor doing drama.

No! Life never gain until it is focused, dedicated and disciplined.

The Conscious and the Subconscious Minds

It was in the latter part of my primary school years that I came across the word “psychology”, got a fair understanding of its meaning as the study of behaviour and mental processes, and got hooked.

It was a revelation to me. Now I would be able to read any human being like a book, I thought. That was how psychology became one of my strongest passions.
I began to read any material on the subject I could lay my hands on, though not many were readily available. There was no internet then to help in any way.  And, the few scripts that came my way were mostly too academic for me to make any sense of, but after some time, I started coming across simple facts that everyone can use in almost every aspect of life to effect changes. The most amazing discovery for me was that human beings have two minds: the conscious and the subconscious. Some call the subconscious, the unconscious mind.
The conscious mind, also called the objective mind, is what your five senses depend on to let you experience the world. It is the rational mind that analyses your experiences to enable you make choices. Also, within its domain is the preconscious. Another important work of the conscious mind is being the guard of the subconscious – the gatekeeper. That’s why your conscious mind should constantly be alert so that it doesn’t let any dangerous garbage pass through it to your subconscious and become part of your belief system.
The subconscious mind, apart from being responsible for your involuntary actions such as breathing or the pumping of the heart, it is also the seat of your emotions, creativity, long-term memory and beliefs. In short, it is the depository of all what you know, who you are and whatever knowledge you bring up to the surface whenever needed. It directs your body to act according to whatever your dominant thoughts are.
It can’t and doesn’t discriminate good from evil beliefs. Any garbage let into it without rational evaluation by the objective mind could become part of your belief system. For example, if you or someone else convinced you that you have a poor memory, the subconscious mind would accept that as an instruction and act accordingly. Soon an inability to remember a lot of things would become your new reality. This, though, doesn’t mean every poor memory is the result of wrong belief. It could be due to old age or the side effect of some medications.
The good thing about the workings of the two minds, though, is that habits can be changed by changing the content of the subconscious. Of course, progress can be a bit slow on many ingrained habits. So, prevention is better than cure.
Knowing that you can even direct the mind to rehearse a future event and have more confidence when the time to do it for real comes is another revelation to me and cemented psychology into the list of my passions. It’s called mental rehearsal. Sports people have made it a very important part of their preparation. They visualise how they would like to perform at an event from beginning to the end. Muhammad Ali calls it visualising your future history. The more efficiently your visualise, the more your subconscious mind takes it in and takes control of the real performance when the time comes and you play as if on autopilot.
I cannot claim having a good knowledge of psychology. One swallow doesn’t make a summer.  I only understand that knowing the workings of the two minds is a precursor to understanding the nature of courage and cowardice, confidence and timidity, happiness and unhappiness, causes of success in reaching ones goal and otherwise, and many other facets of human nature and endeavours. I understand why a paradigm shift changes a lot of things.
Another thing I stumbled upon and had to have some training on was life coaching. You help people reach their goals in the quickest way possible. I also learnt how psychology helps business with the some of the most effective ways of getting and keeping customers.
By now, you may be wondering whether I have been able to achieve what I thought I would with psychology – the ability to read any human being like a book. Well…umm…no way near that yet, to be honest; but I don’t know what the future holds – though I know of no one who has been able to achieve that feat throughout human history. Human beings are complex characters who will never fail to surprise you, positively and negatively. All I will express for now is my delight for having a glimpse on how their internal dialogues govern their actions.

KIDS AND CELL PHONES!!!

Our children are now very much interested in possessing and manipulating cell phones, watching films and other thrillers everyday. They are now used to the act in such a way that they often forgo doing their homework, reading their books and attending to other home activities. More worrisome is that those in secondary schools go to school with the gadgets which they browse in the class even when lessons are going on. These frivolous activities have seriously contributed to the poor performance of students in examinations.

Unfortunately, this is happening at the time the government is putting everything in place towards achieving quality education for all by 2015. All thesame, the situation is not completely out of control as the government, especially the school authorities, can do something to remedy the situation. The government, teachers, parents and other stakeholders should do everything within their power to correct these aberrations. Otherwise, our nation would be infested with bunch of illiterate graduates in the near future.

The last UTME witnessed one of the worst performances by students in this country as only 10 out of 1.7 million candidates who sat for the examination scored 300 and above. Such a poor performance should move stakeholders especially the government to find a lasting solution to the problem.

Nigeria has all it takes to bring back education to an enviable height like the days of our famous trio of Obafemi Awolowo, Abubakar Tafawa Balewa and Nnamdi Azikiwe of blessed memory. My heart bleeds whenever I see posters with such inscriptions as STUDY IN GHANA on our major towns and cities. Imagine Ghana whose migrants here were sent packing decades ago; now like the biblical joseph they are feeding us educationally. Nigerians are now going to Ghana to study; isn't that shameful?

Parents should do something about their children's indulgence in frivolities because they are the first to feel the impact of such misbehaviour. The bottom line is parents should not buy their children cell phones until they finish their secondary education.

May ALLAH guide us all.

Islamic ruling on taking out an interest-based loan to build a house

Taking an interest-based loan is legally forbidden unless there is a necessity behind taking out this loan through applying and operating the legal rule “necessities renders the prohibitions lawful". Since, taking a loan with interest is legally forbidden unless there is a necessity allowing it, e.g. no one accepts to lend a free loan. In this case, there is no harm in taking out a loan for an interest through applying the legal rule “necessities make the prohibitions lawful". 

To conclude, the questioner may take a loan from the bank if s/he is urgently in need of it. However, s/he must take only what meets the urgent necessity equitably without going beyond the proper limits of necessity.

Allah knows the best!

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THE STATUS OF WOMEN IN ISLAM

Islam sees a woman, whether single or married, as an individual in her own right to own and dispose off her property and earnings without any guardianship over her (whether that be her father, husband, or anyone else). She has the right to buy and sell, give gifts and charity, and may spend her money as she pleases. A marriage dowry is given by the groom to the bride for her own personal use, and she keeps her own family name rather than taking her husband's.

Islam encourages the husband to treat his wife well, as prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) said: "The best among you are those who are best to their wives".

Mothers in Islam are highly honoured. Islam recommends treating them in the best way. 

May ALLAH grant us the ability to respect the status of our mothers and wives to the best of our ability.

Importance of Mother

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SHAWARWARI 60 GA MATAN AURE

1.Ta rike masa amana 2. Tayi masa biyayya akan duk abinda ba sabon Allah bane. 3. Ta kula da dukiyarsa 4. Ta kula da Sallah akan lokaci. Da addua zaman lafiya 5. TA girmama shi a gaban idansa 6. TA kare girmansa a bayan idansa 7. Ta so abinda yake so, koda ba abin so bane a wajenta 8. Ta ki abinda yake ki, koda ba abin ki bane awajenta 9. Ta damu da duk abin da ya damu dashi. 10. Ta kau da kai daga abinda ya kauda kai, daga gareshi 11.Tayi fushi , da dukkan abinda yayi fushi da shi . 12.Ta yarda da duk abinda ya yarda da shi 13.Idan ya bata kadan taga yawansa 14.Idan ya bata da yawa tayi godiya 15.Ta farka daga bacci kafin ya farka 16.Sai yayi bacci kafin tayi 17.Tayi hakuri idan yayi fushi 18 Tayi taushi idan yayi tsauri 19.Ta lallashe shi idan ya hasala 20.kada ta nuna raki a gabansa 21.kada tayi kuka alhali yana dariya 22.kada tayi dariya alhali yana kuka 23.kada ta tsaya kai da fata sai yayi mata wani abu 24.kada ta matsa masa da bukatu 25.kada ta dinka ganinsa kamar yaran gida 26.kada ta dinka yi masa gyara barkatai 27.kada ta dinka kushe tsarinsa 28.Ki dinka zuga shi a gaban danginta 29.Ta dinka girmama shi a wajen kawayenta 30.Ta dinka nuna masa abu mai kyau 31.Ta dinka boye abu mummuna 32.Idan ya kawo wata damuwa gareta, ta taimake shi ya warware ta 33.Idan ya nuna baya son wani abu ta daina 34.Ta kwantar masa da hankali a lokacin damuwa 35.Ta sassauta masa idan yana cikin bakin ciki 36.Ta tsaya da jinyar sa idan yana rashin lafiya 37.Ta taimake shi lokacin da yake neman taimako 38.Idan yana cikin kunci ta sassauta bukatu 39.Tayi masa rakiya lokacin fita ta tareshi a lokacin da ya dawo 40.Ta tausasa harshe a lokacin da take magana dashi 41.Ta zama mai tsaftar gida iya iyawarta 42.Ta tsara dakinta sosai yadda zai birge 43.Tayi masa bankwana a lokacin balaguro 44.Tayi ado karshen iyawarta 45.Ta bayyana halaye masu kyau 46.Ishara ta ishi mai hankali ta kula wannan sosai 47.Ta bayyana kanta a matsayin mace 48.Ta iya murmushi da lafazi mai kwantar da rai 49.Ta cika zuciyarsa da sonta idansa da kwalliyarta 50.Tayi kokarin jan hankalinsa da abin da yake so 51.Ta mayar masa da kyakkyawa idan yay i mata mummuna 52.Ta yafe masa idan ya munana mata 53.Ta karbi uzurinsa 54.kada tayi sallar nafila sai ta sanar masa 55.kada ta dau azumi sai ya sani. 56.kada ta fita daga gida sai ya sani. 57.Ta iya girki kala-kala. 58.kazantar jiki ta dade tana kashe aure a kula. 59.kada ta shigar da wani gidansa sai da izni. 60.kada ta nemi saki ko rabuwa haka kawai Allah ya zaunar damu lafiya da iyalan mu.

WHY WE DO NOT CELEBRATE MILAD

1. We do not celebrate milad because Allah in his Holy book containing more than 6000 verses has not ordered us to celebrate it.

2. We do not celebrate milad because the most sacred and authorative personality in islam after Allah i.e, The Apostle of Allah (PBUH), neither celebrated the milad of the Messengers before him, nor he ordered and celebrated his own milad.

3. We do not celebrate milad because the most pious, righteous people in this ummah and the more loved ones of Allah and his Messenger that are the Sahabah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon all of them) did not celebrated it.

4. We do not celebrate milad because its a share innovation in the religion for which the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "Every innovation is misguidance and every misguidance will lead to hell fire "

5. We do not celebrate milad because its an act of Yahood and Nasaara, and we have been strictly ordered by our Prophet (PBUH) to desist from what the ahlikitab does and we have been ordered to oppose them .

THERE IS A STRONG REMINDER FOR ALL OF US IN THIS HADITH

Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) Said: Whom Allah has blessed with Islamic knowledge: "Whoever is asked about a knowledge that he knows about and then hides it and keeps it away, he will be bridled on the day of judgement with a bridle of fire." (Related by Ahmad, Abu Dawud and Al-Tirmidhi)

So based on this Hadith, I am posting about this serious issue Eid Ul Milad. Remember, our responsibility is just to aware people, and giving Hidayah is in Allah's hands!!